Expecting someone to reciprocate your love feeling is impossible mostly because the person has no special feeling about you. Yet, you are not fully able to move beyond this person after so many years.
People say time will heal the “wounds” or disappointment. Other say don’t think too much about this person, keep yourself busy. Yet, the image of this person still pops out, as soon as you open your eyes or just before you sleep. You still think about this person here and there.
Falling in love is a complicated process for some people. A process that initially you don’t ask or expect, but when it strikes you, the effect lasts longer than you could imagine. But, please don’t be afraid to fall in love with someone, because life is dull without love, laughter, and hug.
**p.s. This written piece is appeared on the @1001diarycollections on Instagram
Building mutual and eternal love is like planting a tree. It takes time and dedication, but it gives us the most rewarding experience when we see the results.
Just like a seed needs water, fertilizer and human’s care to grow, so does love. We need to feed our relationship with “nutritious food”, such as positive communication, appreciation, and passion if we want our relationship to grow.
The growing tree could get hit by thunder or fall down due to storm, but the root is still there and so the tree is still able to reproduce its leaves. Similarly, when the foundation of love is strong, there is no need to be afraid of facing the “storm” because even when the storm destroys or shakes the relationship, the foundation is still there and could “re-grow” again. It does take time, but the process is slightly faster than the first time because the foundation is still there.
Are you nurturing and taking care of your love relationship?
p.s. This written piece is also published on Instagram @1001diarycollections